Introduction
I still remember the first time I stepped foot in Cape May—the salty seaside breeze, the pastel‑coloured Victorian houses, and the sense of stepping back into a gentler, more relaxed era of beach town life. I came for a weekend, expecting just sun, sand and seafood—but ended up discovering hidden nature trails, historic lighthouses, bird‑migration marvels and charming downtown strolling. After wandering the streets, climbing the tower of the famous lighthouse and enjoying an ice‑cream under a striped umbrella, I knew this place deserved more than a quick getaway. So if you’re planning a trip, here’s a curated guide of 12 of the best and most fun things to do in Cape May, New Jersey, based on what I experienced and loved. Whether you’re there for family time, a romantic escape or a solo break—it’s got something special.
12 Best & Fun Things To Do In Cape May, NJ (2026)
1. Relax at the Beach
Cape May’s beaches are one of the top draws. Wide, well‑maintained stretches of sand, gentle waves and a peaceful rhythm make it easy to unwind. I parked near the Beach Avenue access, set up a chair, and watched families and couples drift by, while gulls and waves supplied the background soundtrack. The summer lifeguards add an extra layer of ease for those with kids. ([turn0image9])
Tip: Arrive early to secure a good parking spot and umbrella set‑up. Bring sunscreen and a hat—coastal sun can sneak up on you.
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2. Visit the Iconic Cape May Lighthouse & Cape May Point State Park
One of the most memorable experiences I had was climbing the 199 steps up the Cape May Lighthouse at Cape May Point State Park. From the top you get sweeping views of the Atlantic and Delaware Bay shoreline. The state park around it offers nature trails, birdwatching spots and a peaceful contrast to the beach scene. ([turn0search1])
Tip: Wear comfortable shoes (those steps add up) and bring water. Early morning gives you cooler air and softer light for photos.
3. Stroll the Historic Victorian‑Era Homes
Cape May boasts a fine collection of preserved Victorian houses—turrets, gingerbread trim, wrap‑around porches and pastel hues. I spent an afternoon just wandering the residential streets, camera in hand, admiring the architecture and imagining what summer life might have been like in the 19th century.
Tip: Take a guided walking tour if you want historical context. Otherwise just meander with your own pace and let serendipity lead.
4. Explore the Downtown Washington Street Mall Pedestrian Mall
The Washington Street Mall is a charming hub of shops, cafés, ice cream parlours and local boutiques. I found myself wandering in and out of stores, enjoying salt‑water taffy displays and picking up souvenirs. The pedestrian nature of the mall means you can stroll without car worries—just soak in the street‑life.
Tip: Stop for an afternoon coffee or gelato here, then return after dinner for a relaxed post‑sunset walk.
5. Take a Whale & Dolphin Watching Cruise or Kayak Tour
If you’re up for something beyond the beach, I joined a nature‑cruise departing from Cape May Harbour, hoping for dolphins or even whales. The wide sea‑scape, the fresh air and the chance of wild‑life make it extra memorable.
Tip: Choose the afternoon departure for calmer seas and possibly golden‑hour lighting. Dress in layers (sea breeze can cool things down).
6. Visit the New Jersey Audubon Nature Centre & Bird‑watching Spots
Cape May is known as a top location for bird‑watching—especially during migration seasons. The Nature Centre in the harbour area offers educational exhibits and trails where I spotted ospreys and song‑birds. It’s a peaceful counter‑point to beach crowds. (
Tip: Bring binoculars if you have them; spring and autumn see the most bird‑activity.
7. Go to the Harriet Tubman Museum & Other Cultural Stops
For a cultural break, I visited the Harriet Tubman Museum in Cape May—which chronicles the story of the abolitionist in this region. It’s a thoughtful stop and adds meaningful depth to your visit.
Tip: Check museum hours ahead of time; this works well as a calm indoor option on a midday break or rainy afternoon.
8. Family‑Friendly Fun at Cape May County Park & Zoo
If you’re travelling with kids (or just feel young at heart), the Cape May County Park & Zoo is a lovely outing. With more than 250 species and free admission, I found it a delightful couple of hours away from the beach‑side bustle.
Tip: Bring a picnic; the zoo park area has benches and lawns that make it easy to linger.
9. Enjoy the Sunset & Look for Cape May “Diamonds” at Sunset Beach (New Jersey)
One evening I drove out to Sunset Beach along the Delaware Bay side and watched the sun dip below the horizon. While there, I searched for the shiny quartz crystals known locally as “Cape May diamonds”—a fun and calming activity.
Tip: Bring a small bag for your finds, stay past sunset for the best light, and wear shoes suitable for sand + wetlands.
10. Sample Local Food, Wineries & Brewery Scene
Cape May has a surprisingly rich food and drink scene. I indulged in fresh seafood by the harbour, visited a local winery surrounded by vines and even sampled craft beer at a local brewery. The mix of flavours made the trip extra memorable.
Tip: Reserve ahead for dinner if you want waterfront seating. For wine or beer stops, afternoons work well and let you ease into the evening.
11. Take a Trolley Tour or Hop On a Historical Walking Tour
One afternoon I hopped onto a red‑and‑green trolley that wound through the historic district, pointing out key Victorian homes, old inns and telling stories of the town’s evolution. It’s a fun way to get oriented and appreciate the town’s heritage.
Tip: Book a morning slot so you still have time in the afternoon for your own explorations. If you’re on foot, download a self‑guided map and explore at your own pace.
12. Visit Nearby Nature & Bike Trails or Go Shell‑Hunting
If you want something a little off the beaten path, bike one of the trails near Higbee Beach or explore marsh‑trails and look for shells or birdlife. I borrowed a bike one morning and found quaint paths near the bay with fewer crowds and a different kind of beauty.
Tip: Rent a beach bike and helmet for a half‑day; pack water and maybe swimwear so you can stop at a small beach or trailside clearing.
Final Thoughts
Cape May captured me because it feels both timeless and alive: the kind of place you can both relax fully and still discover something new. Whether you’re lying in the sand, climbing a lighthouse, sipping local wine, or simply meandering past gingerbread‑trimmed Victorian porches, there’s a gentle magic here.
Why this list works
- Balance of experiences: beach time, nature & wildlife, history, architecture, food & drink.
- Something for every traveller: families, couples, solo explorers, nature‑lovers.
- Seasonal appeal: While summer is classic, Cape May shines in spring, fall and even winter for a quieter feel.
If I were to leave you with one piece of advice: stay two nights or more. One day will give you a taste; staying 48 hours or longer lets you choose a favourite spot (maybe the beach or the historic district) and revisit it in a different light.